Sunday, December 9, 2018

Last Week of November

The last week of November we had fun celebrating Steve's birthday and some wonderful surprises during his birthday week.

Steve took Carter to see the ducks at the park.

Nyles and Carter being silly w/ the bubbles in their bath.


Carter has been fighting his naps this month, and after losing his binky over Thanksgiving it's been even harder.  Once he finally falls asleep he's asleep for a couple hours.  He's been waking up earlier than normal though, so we're waking him up after only an hour nap so he'll be tired for bed.  Steve took a picture of Carter when he went to wake him up from his nap.  As he's fighting his nap he throws his blankies out of his crib.  Silly kid.  

We went to Red Robin's for dinner on Steve's birthday.  Free birthday burger, can't beat that!  Joann and Rob joined us as well.  I am so thankful to have Steve in my life and as my eternal companion forever!

Throwback Thursday- Joann pregnant w/ Steve, Stacie in the background.

We went back home and sang Happy Birthday to Steve and had cake to celebrate.  Nyles and Carter were so excited to help blow out the candles.  Carter kept saying "Party" all day, which means he wants to blow out the candles.

Big helpers blowing out the candles.

Carter wanted a duck on the cake, so Steve drew one for him.

Carter loves to push the button which makes the snowman go up and down.  He calls snow "nose" for some reason.  It's cute that he loves the snowman so much, but we have to limit how often he gets to push the buttons.  The weather turned quite stormy at home, so Steve sent me a picture.

At work it was mostly sunny though, so I sent him a picture.
I finished up my first year of CFP CE (continuing education) credits and renewed my license.  I can't believe it's been a year since I took the test.  I'm so thankful to be done w/ that!  It definitely worked out to have me finish my test last year, now this year Steve is the one studying and I usually put the kids to bed.  We've traded spots, but we make a good team.  Looking back it definitely worked out and I'm glad we followed the promptings to get my certification done then, so now Steve can get his.
 

Thinking of blessing we've definitely had some recently.  We've been praying and thinking about how we can balance my work, Nyles' school, Steve's school and clinical rotations (since they have to be 8-5pm the same time I work), and Carter.  All during Thanksgiving it's been on our minds but we hadn't found something that felt right.  Since we got home from Thanksgiving early, we went to our ward like normal.  A sister who spoke bore her testimony about how another sister in the ward helped watch her kids after she had to return to work.  As she said this I felt impressed this is what we needed to do as well.  Then during 2nd hour the Bishop felt impressed to pull Steve aside and ask how he was doing.  Steve explained our predicament w/ his clinical rotations and how we're going to care for the kids.  The Bishop then promised Steve that since we felt prompted to apply to this program and we pay our tithing faithfully, the Lord will provide a way for us to accomplish it.  As Steve told me this I felt it was true, though we still didn't know how it would work out.

That evening after Steve and I were discussing it further, I felt we should ask our ward members for help.  I posted on our Relief Society Facebook page and a few minutes later a couple sisters said they'd gladly help us.  One said they could help take Nyles to and from school if needs be, and the other could help watch Carter during the day!  It definitely was an answer to our prayers!

On Wednesday, November 28th, in light of what the Bishop said, I decided to look at our tithing again and make sure we had paid a full tithe.  We've always paid a full tithe and have a testimony of it.  I usually do our budget and pay our tithing at the first of every month, looking at the previous month.  It was only a few days earlier than I normally do it, but I felt impressed to double check our tithing.  So during my lunch break at work, I decided to pay our tithing for what we'd earned so far that month even though it wasn't over.  

The next day the 29th, on Steve's birthday, we had a number of wonderful surprises.  
  • First, we found out that Steve will do his first rotations at Alta View Hospital!  We are so excited since it's the closest hospital to us, only like 7 minutes away.  It's also where Nyles and Carter were born so it holds a special place in our hearts.
  • Next, I then found out that they are rolling out "work from home" in my department sooner than expected.  Before they kept saying it would be mid next year at the earliest, but they changed their minds and decided to give us all laptops so we can start sooner.  We should get more information over the next couple weeks, so hopefully by January I'll be ready to go.  Right now we can only work 50% from home, but still, it'll be a great blessing!  Not having to spend 2 hours commuting to and from work every day will be wonderful!  On the days I work from home I will be able to spend more time w/ Steve and the kids as well.
  • Then I received a higher base raise than I have in past years, which will start in January.
  • And to top that, I got my regular bonus on Steve's birthday AND we found out they're giving all of us an EXTRA bonus the first week of December!  Can't beat free money!
  • We just finished our annual enrollment in October and we didn't think we'd need childcare, so I didn't sign up for it.  But by November we found out that Steve's clinical rotations require Steve to work 8am-5pm, so we are now going to need help w/ the kids.  I was able to call and sign up for a pretax Flexible Spending Account after the enrollment closed.  Since it comes out  pretax that'll save us a few dollars.  Definitely a blessing!
  • Carter has still been seeing the speech therapist a couple times a month.  He's been greatly improving w/ his words and communication abilities since she's been coming.  She also let us know that in January Carter can go to a Pre-preschool on Mondays for a couple hours.  She said this will also help him since he'll be w/ peers and be in a formal educational structure.  We're definitely going to try it, especially since we don't have to pay anymore for it.  Another blessing for sure!
I know the Lord has our best interests in mind and he knows what will be best for us, even though  many times we don't understand his timing.  I have felt his "hand" in our lives as we've acted in faith, knowing he knows best.  As things have been coming together, especially these past few months, we truly see his timing coming to pass.  I also don't find it coincidence that the day after paying our tithing, many blessings came through for us.  It has definitely helped strengthen my testimony of tithing even further.

#ldsquotes #preshinckley #tithing #faith #lds #mormon  Law of Tithing

On a lighter note, last Saturday we went to the Aquarium since we hadn't been in a while.  They have Elf of the Shelf hidden around w/ the animals/insects.  Nyles is really good at finding them.  We had a lot of fun going and just being together. 

In the jungle/Amazon area of the Aquarium.  
Nyles showing his coin he made and Carter and Nyles taking a ride on the sea turtle.
 

 Looking at some fish.

Now taking a ride on the whale.

The sloth was actually awake and eating!

It's been a wonderful month of November, full of Thanksgiving and recognizing blessings from the Lord in all our circumstances.


Thanksgiving!

We had Thanksgiving this year up in Boise at Barbara and Rich's house.  We left Wednesday to go up to Boise and stay the night w/ Barb.  We made pretty good time and got up there by dinnertime.  Pauline and her family showed up later that night around bedtime for the kids.

Nyles taking a nap along the way.

Carter was so excited to see Abby again.  She came down w/ Barb in October for Summer's wedding and ever since he's been wanting to see her again.  He kept saying "Abby, Abby, Abby."

Carter refusing to take a nap on the way up.  I think he was too excited to see Abby.
Once we got there he wouldn't let Abby out of his sight.  They did some dancing.

More dancing w/ Calley and Abby.

The next day we got ready for Thanksgiving dinner/lunch.  Dallin, Calley and Carter eating some Cheetos before dinner, and the dog Zoey trying to get some too. 
 

Dakota, Nyles, Carter, Ezra and Sage eating Grandma Hegerhorst's yummy caramel popcorn balls w/ suckers inside them. 

Dishing up the food and starting to eat.  
My dad cooked the turkey in his Traeger this year.  It was tasty!

Family picture.  Rose and her girls didn't make it, nor Anna.  Anna's boys came, but Anna was at the hospital unfortunately all day.  She ended up having a bad cold or something.

After lunch we went over to the park w/ some of the kids.
Ayden and Carter had a good time.

Running back to Barb's house since it started to rain on us.

Playing a candy bar game mom put together.  
She gave us clues and we had to figure out which candy bar it described.

We then played our traditional white elephant gift game.  Dad started it out by getting some 80's workout DVDs.  It was pretty funny.

Steve helping Carter open his gift and Dexter helping Sage w/ hers.

Carter displaying the pretty ribbon on his head.  Dad tickling Carter and Nyles.
 

Ryan came in late to the white elephant game and took away Dad's gift.  He thought it was soda since it was in a soda container, but it was the 80's workout DVDs.  We all laughed pretty hard.

Dad opening a different gift now after Ryan stole his.

 Ayden likes to use mom's walker.

After games we decided to head down to my parent's house for the night to spend time w/ them. Carter bit his binky the night before at Barb's house and put a hole in it.  Ironically we were hoping to "lose" it during our trip up to Idaho, but Carter did it all on his own.  It was a little rough for him not to have it, but he's adjusting.

Carter had to ride the 3 wheeler of course. 

We brought down our pumpkins for my mom so she could can them.  The big ones were from Aunt Marla though.  Nyles eating licorice before we headed back on the road.

We decided to head home Friday morning since it was supposed to snow in SLC.  It rained the whole time driving home and turned to snow as we got to the Idaho/Utah border.  As we got into Utah more it stopped thankfully.  We made it home in good time though.

Nyles and Carter playing w/ magnets and eating licorice.  
Thankfully they both took naps on the way home as soon as we hit the freeway.

Cheese!

We got snow Saturday morning, but thankfully the snow plows got the roads cleared off.  I was able to make it to the Draper Temple to do initiatories.  It's always great to be in the Lord's house, even for a short time.  

Nyles took a selfie while I was gone on Steve's phone.  I love his cute little freckles. :)

We have so much to be thankful for, not just at Thanksgiving time but all year long.  I like Elder Uchtdorf talk called "Grateful in Any Circumstances.  He said, "I’m suggesting that instead of being thankful for things, we focus on being thankful in our circumstances—whatever they may be.  True gratitude is an expression of hope and testimony. It comes from acknowledging that we do not always understand the trials of life but trusting that one day we will."  What a great perspective to keep in mind.  I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving and can be grateful in our circumstances, regardless of what they may be.

Great quote
"It's not happy people who are thankful, it's thankful people who are happy." - unknown

Thursday, December 6, 2018

2nd Week of November

The week before Thanksgiving wasn't too eventful.  We were mostly doing our regular things, Steve and Nyles going to school, Carter being Carter, and me working.  We then got ready to go up to Idaho for Thanksgiving the Wednesday before.  Here are some other highlights.

Carter being cranky after waking up from a nap.  Steve being silly w/ a mustache.  He wanted to do "No Shave November", but that didn't fly so well w/ me.  He shaved it shortly after. :)

Carter fell asleep downstairs while watching a backhoe in the neighbor's yard.  He refused to take a nap, so Steve let him build a "fort" to watch.  Thankfully he fell asleep shortly after.  

So cute!

Steve put his coat on him since he rolled over on his blankets and he didn't want him to be cold.
Carter getting a ride from Steve in Costco.

Nyles out duck hunting w/ Steve.

Carter loves soft things and animals.  
He put his cheek on the soft kitten in the book.  Cutie:)

We put up our Christmas tree the Sunday before Thanksgiving, since we were planning to come back home the Sunday after Thanksgiving.  
The boys were pretty excited to get out the nativity set as well.

Cute Carter eating a chocolate cookie.